2.05.2008

Educated women this is for you

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Tired of catching the bouquet? Do you think time is running out? Are you prime years wasted on the couch watching network TV alone? Well, I got something for you.
I have engaged with many discussions about this topic over the last few months. I feel i must now put it in print to share with the public at large. so let me begin....


Women are women, men are men. thats a simple statement right. you are talented, educated, sophisticated, and successful. unfortunately this combo does not make finding a mate any easier. i have heard that men are intimidated by you. yeah some lame might be intimidated by his own professional shortcomings and be intimidated. you don't need him anyway so he doesnt count. he is obviously unsuitable. Personally, i think thats a crutch used to prop up your own self-esteem. seriously, men desire certain qualities from our women and a sucessful career is not necessarily at the top of the list. we need attentiveness, accessibility, warmth, concern, freakiness, etc. its not that we dont value your success but it is a quality amongst others. not above but amongst. therefore if the other qualities are not in line we will look elsewhere. furthermore, i'm not your bitch cause you make more money. women may stand for that, taking a constant dose of act right cause he has money. that doesnt go as smoothly for a man especially one with pride. one day like a caged monkey he will respond in the worst way to our overbearing ways, unless he has already turned over his balls to you. then you wont respect him for yet another reason. sometimes we cant win for losing. needless to say, women dont be discouraged just re-evalute yourselves. talk to older women with successful relationships and take some of their experiences for yourself. i said successful. then mix and match the two to make a fruitful enviroment for a good relationship. yes, you can have the world on your own, but you have to give in some ways to have someone to share it with. if that doesnt work, i am a stud for hire. i can email that personal resume to you. hit me up later.

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